I felt devalued and humiliated and no amount of effort on his part was going to change that, which he must have figured out because he gave up pretty quickly.
I select m4m and scan through the ages, looking for his (33).
And in the seven years since I cheated (and also been found out thanks to email), I had never figured out how to forgive myself.
Eric, the boyfriend I betrayed, hadn’t either—he said he knew he wouldn’t be able to get past it and that the relationship was over.
Jason said I was everything he had been looking for, that I was the love of his life.
Things progressed quickly; pretty soon he introduced me to his daughter and we were discussing a timeline for moving in together.One night, about two months into our relationship, we were sharing stories of past lovers. ” He said it like a question, clearly concerned about my reaction. I read “Savage Love” regularly, so I was familiar with the concept of bisexual but “hetero-romantic,” to use Dan Savage’s term.