You will probably meet his friends, but on such outings, you may be the only one at the table who doesn't speak Korean. Whichever choice he makes is going to tear his heart in half.
And do you really want a guy who is easily willing to give up his family? Your boyfriend is in a very difficult situation with a heart-breaking decision to make. Constantly pointing out that YOUR parents have known about him for months is not going to help the situation. Something else that you will have to consider is, if you get married, where will you live? If you cannot see yourself giving up your home and country and leaving your family, then surely you can see how difficult it is to ask him to do that instead.
Very touchy feely Japanese couples are definitely NOT the norm.” “Long working hours and overtime are common here in Japan.
My first Japanese boyfriend would go for weeks without contacting me because he was working late every day.
” “Even if you are shy, if you like someone you should be proactive about it.
There is a good chance that he will like you too, and just not have imagined that you could possibly be interested in him.
In general, Japanese men are likely to be embarrassed about showing affection in public – even things like putting an arm around someone’s shoulders, or hugging, never mind kissing.Some guys will be genuinely interested in you as a person, some will want a girlfriend to practice English with, and some will view you as a trophy.